Godbey: Why do people my age look old besides me

Published 3:43 pm Tuesday, July 23, 2024

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By Jack Godbey

Columnist

I’ve been doing everything in my power to keep cool these past few weeks with it being hotter than nine shades of hell outside. There were a few times that it was so hot, I considered pulling off my clothes and going down to the park and running through the splash pad. That gives a whole new meaning to the phrase free willy.

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Since it’s too hot to cook, it gives me the perfect excuse to eat pork rinds and bologna for supper. Imagine my surprise when I went to the fridge and noticed that I was totally out of bologna. How could such a tragedy happen? I slathered on some sunscreen and made my way to the store wiping the sweat from my brow as I went. While there, I saw a young man who looked to be in his early 20s walking around with a toboggan on his head and his friend had on a hoodie with the hood pulled up where he looked like the Unabomber. They made me break out into a heat induced sweat just looking at them. It’s hard to fathom a time when style came before comfort. It was then that I realized that I was the grumpy old man that I used to make fun of.

I’ll admit that my thinking has changed a bit as I grow older. There was a time when I tried to look my best when I went out with only the newest in-style clothes. Now, what’s in style is whatever clothes that still fit. Is it wrong that I now have a favorite pair of pants?

I recall when “One for the road” meant one last drink. Now, it means peeing before I leave the house. Afterall, we don’t want a repeat of the great peeing my pants incident of 2022. I still can’t look the clerk at the Piggly Wiggly in the face. I swear the clerk and the bag boy are snickering behind my back every time I go in the store. 

I used to wish for world peace. Now, I just wish people would use their stinking blinker once in a while. Is that too much to ask? I used to think that exercising was important. That hasn’t changed as I still do crunches several times a week. Well, if by crunches you mean eating bacon then yes, I absolutely do crunches.

They say that with age comes wisdom and I couldn’t agree more. For example, I used to think that I would benefit from anger management classes. However, as I’ve gotten older, I realize I just need people to stop irritating me. Problem solved.

I remember as a child I always wanted to help my father work on whatever project he had going on. Many times, I would walk into the room to find him talking to himself and I never understood this. Now that I’m the age he was then, I find that I talk to myself quite often.  It’s not that I’m crazy, it’s that I just need some expert advice and I’m the only guy that tells me what I want to hear. Except for that time as a child that I lied to myself and thought that I could fly and that jumping off the outbuilding was a great idea. It wasn’t.

One thing I can’t seem to figure out is why do all the people my age look old except for me. I haven’t aged a day since the 80s. Sometimes, I feel so sorry for them.